Q: Why hindquarters't I have a vaginal orgasm? I can only orgasm with a vibrator and sometimes oral sex. Is there something wrong with Maine? Are there positions I should try to sexual climax during penetrative sex?

There's absolutely zero wrong with you! Most people WHO have vulvas need clitoral stimulation ready to get an climax, and that's OK.

And if you've found that you lavatory sexual climax with a vibrator operating room oral sex, that's great! That means you know your body.

To be honest, there isn't a big difference between the elbow room a vaginal Beaver State clitoral orgasm feels.

Like the vagina, the clitoris is part of a system comprised of erogenous tissue that becomes engorged with blood when aroused.

If you're focused on having a channel orgasm, consider using a sex miniature that stimulates the clitoris during penetrative play.

As far as positions go, the outdo positions to hear are the ones that are the most comfortable for you. You shouldn't feel pressured to betroth in any positions that cause unwanted sexual pain.

If you hindquarters, find a comfortable position that allows your clitoris to receive stimulation during insight.


Dr. Janet Brito is a nationally certified Latinx sex therapist, supervisor, speaker, trainer, and author. Dr. Brito is the founder and owner of the Hawaii Center for Sexual and Relationship Health , a group practice that specializes in relationship and sex therapy, out of moderate sexual demeanor, and gender and sexually divers populations, and The Sexual Health Cultivate , an online training plan for healthcare professionals seeking human sexuality training.

Education

  • Loyola University Chicago, BS
  • Columbia University in the City of Empire State, MS
  • Pacifica Graduate Constitute, PhD

Certifications

  • Licensed Objective Psychologist
  • Authorized Clinical Social Actor
  • AASECT Certified Sex Supervisory program
  • AASECT Certified Sexual practice Therapist

Professional Accomplishments

  • Brito, J. (2018). A Phenomenological Analysis on Infertility in Mexican Women Living in the U.S . Interamerican Journal of Psychological science.

Affiliations

  • Ground Tie-u of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT)
  • Hawaii Science Association (HPA)
  • International Concentrate for Excellency in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
  • National Latinx Psychological Tie (NLPA)

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